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By dlgn
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...you do realize that ever single one of those articles and studies was published previously to the ones I cited? That means that the meta-analyses are completely useless (since they can't possibly have taken into account studies that were written after them), and the other studies can be disregarded due to the continuous evolution and improvement of data collection techniques?

To be honest, I'd think the fact that the majority of modern psychology is in consensus about this subject would cause you to change your minds already. Hell, I'd think that no decent person would go around hitting their kids. But it's a strange world we live in, and people can find all sorts of faulty evidence to justify their abhorrent behavior.
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By Ratta237
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I might just make a comment about the OP.
I honestly don't understand this obsession of being "connected".
I mean I like how Facebook and Skype helps me keep in touch with people I don't see very often or have moved overseas.
But interacting with people that I meet face to face almost everyday on Facebook? That just seems idiotic.
Technology overall has help our society a lot but some people are misusing it.

[#999 :o]
By eah
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dlgn wrote:...you do realize that ever single one of those articles and studies was published previously to the ones I cited? That means that the meta-analyses are completely useless (since they can't possibly have taken into account studies that were written after them), and the other studies can be disregarded due to the continuous evolution and improvement of data collection techniques?

To be honest, I'd think the fact that the majority of modern psychology is in consensus about this subject would cause you to change your minds already. Hell, I'd think that no decent person would go around hitting their kids. But it's a strange world we live in, and people can find all sorts of faulty evidence to justify their abhorrent behavior.
I was spanked occasionally, but it wasn't physically painful. It had bad associations with it and that's what made it a punishment.

What other methods are there? Is it expected the parent have an adult conversation with child on what and what not to do? Should there be no punishment at all and we rely solely on reward?
By Skylord_Fox
#188102
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Okay seriously what the hell?
By Tal
#188104
dlgn wrote:...you do realize that every single one of those articles and studies was published previously to the ones I cited? That means that the meta-analyses are completely useless (since they can't possibly have taken into account studies that were written after them).
I would like to point out that you did not cite a study about spanking. You cited a news article about a piece in a journal that was a cross between a review article and an editorial. It did not perform any studies to contribute new data. It did not perform a meta-analysis to analyze data in any different manner. Additionally, many of the articles it cites to make its case are older, some going back to 1986. In fact, the bulk of its citations predate the ones I cited. Do not blindly dismiss arguments based on year of publication, especially when the year of publication is recent. If I were to cite articles from the 50's, you might be justified. However, science moves slowly at the best of times, so dismissing more recent articles is wrong.
dlgn wrote:the other studies can be disregarded due to the continuous evolution and improvement of data collection techniques
Unfortunately, the flaws that were pointed out are ones of basic experimental design and statistical analysis, which I assure you, have not gone through a new renaissance in the past decade. The flaws pointed out 10 years ago are just as valid now.

Another flaw in the studies that Gershoff cites that still exists is that they rely on self-reporting both usage of corporal punishment and the end results. This recent article (published in the last month, so by your standards it must be unquestionable) placed recorders around children, and compared the actual occurrences with the self reported occurrences. It found that corporal punishment (and note, they are looking at all forms of corporal punishment and not just milder forms such as spanking) were used frequently in contradiction to the current advice on proper usage. Additionally, the self reported data only correlated with the actual data 81% of the time. This is a tremendous flaw in the methodology commonly used.

The oldest study I cited, from 1997, is still the only longitudinal study on spanking that does not rely on self reporting, so it is still the most valid study that can be cited. It is not one that can be dismissed due to newer studies surpassing it, because there are no newer studies of its kind.

The person you cited, Gershoff, still has the same problems with lumping together spanking with all forms of child abuse, and still has the same problems with jumping to unwarranted conclusions.

I would also like to point out that one of the articles I cited was in fact a recent article, so it can't even be dismissed by your spurious methodology.

However, seeing as I know you like more modern articles, have this more recent one that examines trends in Sweden's records of assaults since they implemented a spanking ban. You might notice that contrary to the drastic decrease in aggression and violence by those covered by the ban, there has actually been a drastic increase in assaults and rapes. It is clear that banning spanking is not the panacea that you and Gershoff seem to believe that it is.
dlgn wrote:Hell, I'd think that no decent person would go around hitting their kids
There have been four randomized clinical trials investigating the effectiveness of spanking on enforcing behavioral changes in defiant 2-6 year olds. All four of these studies found that spanking is the most effective method . This effectiveness combined with the lack of any solid evidence of the detrimental effects of spanking would serve to provide a fairly decent reason as to why it is done. A larger review of some of these issues can be found here

I would like to request that you actually attempt to address the shortcomings in the studies you cite, rather than merely dismissing them, and making a fallacious statement that "The majority of modern psychology is in consensus about this subject" when no such consensus exists.
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By Neuro_Gasm
#188105
*comes in expecting to read more related to the OP* *reads another ridiculous debate that has nothing to do with the thread*

Teenagers declaring they know the best way of parenting...
By Sandsnake
#188106
In this thread, once again, dlgn goes head to head with someone who obviously knows far more about something than he does. Will he retreat into his usual emotional, alienating and ineffective approach or will he prove teachable, display a little humility and admit to not having the world figured out long before the age of 18?

Inquiring minds want to know!
By DragonSlayer155
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i fink the vidoe wus gud but i likek minreeaml so i wunt listn to duh sily man and wil live lief on teh vereh edge, #hardcoer
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In all seriousness though, was a good video.
I don't know what you guys are on about with the "Spanking" etc, but he never said "Permanently never go on it again."
Yes he mentioned "Sell your PC for a ring," but he meant start a new life. Yeah. It's fine to go on it every nao and then to talk to old friends or play games.

But c'mon.
Some people don't even know what Possums were or something, until someone like PewDiePie or KSIOlajidebt mentions it.
IDK. trying to prove a point lul
By Eetrab
#188117
dlgn the only way I see you convincing others you are right is by writing a miniature thesis on the subject. I would be genuinely interested in reading that if it happens.
By OrigamiElephant
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Meowrocket wrote:
Bu1ld0g wrote:
dlgn wrote: Hitting your kids is harmful and makes behavior worse long-term. Since it's psychologically traumatic, it falls under the label of abuse.

Yelling doesn't work either, and is also harmful. Since it's psychologically traumatic (as I know from personal experience), it falls under the label of abuse.


To quote Vicki Hoefle, mother of six and the author of Duct Tape Parenting, “Discipline implies setting limits and boundaries. But the way we do it is, ‘I’m going to punish you when you do something I don’t like.’ It’s a completely wasted moment.”
Wow, I couldn't completely disagree with you more....
Hmm, well, as a child yelled at and spanked for wrongdoings, I'm certainly not behaving worse than I was at the time. Hell, I say NOT doing that makes your kids spoiled little brats who refuse to listen to authority because they have no power behind it. I have personal experience and see this all around me in my family and friends. THe ones who were punished physically are always better-behaved than those not.
I agree. So few young people seem to understand the idea behind physical punishment. Just like a funny joke or a kiss can be hardwired into your brain, swift and decisive corporal punishment for something you did wrong provides the same hardwiring.

I as a kid (I think like 12-13) stole a candy bar from the grocery store, I didn't even get out the door before a manager got me. My dad got there and he didn't even have to hit me. It was the look on his face. I never stole a single thing again. I also tried to climb in the lions cage at the zoo when I was with my sisters and grandmother. She beat the crap out of me. And again, I never tried to climb into the lions cage.

Sure, some kids are intelligent enough to be reasoned with, but most are not. The problem a lot of psychologists have with physical punishment is that it's not always followed up with kindness and conversation. The kid thinks they just got beat for no reason.

Getting punished by your parents also breaks some of that softness that is only going to drag you down in school. Think what you will, but we don't live in a rainbows and sunshine world. Heck, we don't even (for those of us Yanks) live in a sunshine and rainbows country. You aren't going to get what you want unless you earn it. You don't win arguments unless you win them. And the fight isn't over until you say it's over.

Then again, I'm an old school guy. I was taking care of myself, and staying home alone by 7-8. My parents taught me not to do dumb things. I played outside till the streetlights came on, and got bullied (and lived) and it made me a decent person.

Everyone's journey through life is different. We are all bound by (in this case the society and technology of our time) I could say that I feel sorry for the younger folks growing up in a world where you can't even bring your own food and drink to the fair, but that's life. We are much less free than we used to be, but you grow up learning it is normal.

Kinda makes me fear for the future.
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