eah2119 wrote:Being the person that I am (and I've always been this way), even if cell phones didn't exist, I would remain quite on a bus ride, so I'm safe. Is there anything wrong with that? Is it illogical? Irrational? Unnatural? Sometimes being in your own world is a good thing. Gives you time to think for yourself. Otherwise, if you're not thinking, then you're probably chatting it up with someone on your phone, in which case you're not doing anything different than you would be talking to the person next to you. What's the problem?
There's nothing irrational, unnatural or illogical with being an introvert at times. I'm not an introvert by any means, but I often wish I was.
The illogical thing is that communication online is very different than communication in real life. A lot of people resort to having a persona through technology because it gives them a chance to edit, delete, or prepare what they have to say. You can't do that in the real world. Some people might think of that as the opposite of a problem. But for me, I think of it as a huge problem. I hate who I am online, solely because it's not who I am in real life, and thus it's not really who I am at all.
I agree with Sandsnake here, and I don't have children yet. But when I do, I don't plan to allow much screen-time for my children or for myself once I start a family.