There you go... You might want to read through the rules in a bit more detail, as well as this thread.
http://minerealm.com/community/viewtopi ... =12&t=1523 You won't be able to become one of these of course, but these are some pretty good rules of thumb to follow when playing on this server for most of the time anyways...
Either way, destroying property is not cool, especially when you lose your cool. It may help, to actually walk away in mid argument, and make some tea...
Edit: It might help to tidy up your profile while you wait... I'm not gonna tell you why though. You should learn that answer yourself...
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